Choosing wall tiles, the Universe assists.....

I had to ask the Universe for help yesterday. It was to do with buying kitchen tiles. Last time we went shopping for tiles Lester and I had a major falling out about what were the best tiles to buy for our kitchen. He said that he was fed up with having to battle with me about it. I said that I was fed up with his attitude. We were both tired. No excuse. I should not have been so difficult with him. I should not have been so controlling. I should have listened to his views about which tiles to choose. This is home as well, that is what I should have remembered. 

And so he said that he was not interested in what tiles we should have, that I should go by myself to choose them, which is what I thought should happen as well, arguments would therefore be avoided and I would get what I wanted, that was the plan. 

But the plan became changed when Lester said that he would come with me to the tile shop just as I was about to get into the car to leave. NoooooO!!!!! We were going to have another clash of wills again, that is what I immediately thought. And so to save him and me from clashing again, which was something I did not want, I quickly lit a candle and asked the Universe to help us with choosing the tiles, that there would be peace and harmony between Lester and me, that the right tiles would be chosen, ones which would help build a harmonious atmosphere so that the Universe could use Labartere as a place for the most strongest of healing energies. 

And so it was done. As soon as we got into the car we were calm and peaceful with each other, which continued in the tile shop. I found myself stepping back and letting Lester put forward his choice of tile. I did this without argument. It felt a very easy thing to do, and completely different to the last time we were in the shop. 

The tiles Lester chose were blue with tiles of flowers scattered here and there. A few weeks ago my mind had flashed up that blue needed to be in the tiles, so this was the right choice, or so I thought. We went to the counter to order them, but no, they were no longer available. But we remained calm, did not get into a fuss about having wasted time looking at a range of tiles which should have been removed from display now that they were no longer available. Instead we went off to another shop, and again it was Lester who led the way and made a suggestion as to what to have. It would seem that he is becoming quite a creative person, that is what I thought as I looked at his choice, which was better than his choice of the previous shop. 

And so we came back home, still calm, still at peace with each other, and with the right colour of tiles chosen. But during our shopping trip I remained mindful of that lit candle and knew that the Universe was guiding us along. On the grand scale of things buying wall tiles is minimal, but if the Universe can help us with such small things, like making the right choice of wall tile, then we must surely trust that the Universe can guide us along with bigger things. 

So if you are stuck about being able to make the right choices in life, then ask the Universe to give you guidance, small requests or large requests, they will help. As for Lester and myself, we are back in sync with each other, and I shall try to keep us in sync by lighting a candle each day and asking the Universe to help us keep balanced with each other. I have been doing this already, but sometimes my busy life diverts me away from doing so. As a psychic lady I should not allow this to happen. 

Be blessed this day my friend, go light a candle, look at the light within the candle, and know that the Universe is both within you and around you, and then ask..........

Vx

I write about our life here in France on my other blog, where I describe our renovation and smallholding journey. The Universe brought us to this corner of France, to this once upon a time ruin of a house, to fields which were being raped by a commercial farmer. The challenges have been many, the growth of ourselves huge. It has been a grand journey.